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Happy Holidays
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Happy Holidays

This year’s Christmas cards were my favorites of all time.  He designed them and drew them.  I took dictation.  He was quite clear about what he wanted the card to say.  You’re sure you want me to write “Megatron” on here?  Yes, right there, he said pointing to the right spot.  I’m not sure what Megtron has to do with Christmas, but I carried on and did what he told me.

And then my little southpaw and I sat down at the kitchen table with a rainbow of colored markers and signed them, he signed them.  Watching him focus with such intensity on the task of writing his name and learning with each stroke of the pen was the greatest gift.  Sometimes his name was illegible, but every time it was perfect.  Sometimes he got tired of writing letters and decided to just add a picture.  A robot, a squid, a lobster.  Merry Christmas!  Here’s a lobster!

But the best part?  The kisses.  He so wanted to send love to his friends and family that he puckered up and laid a few smooches on the inside of some of the cards.  And then he marked the spot with an X.

So from our robot family to yours, wishing you and yours a Happy Holiday season!

Gratitude

Happy 70th Birthday Mom!

Now that I’m a mother myself, I look at this photo of my mom and I and I totally get it.  Parenting is an exhausting business and there is rarely a day that goes by that I don’t, at some point during the day, wish I could just curl up on the sofa and close my eyes.

So today as you mark another milestone, I wanted to thank you mom for all your hard work over the years.  You’ve taught me small (but super important) things like how to feed myself and wipe my own bum when I go to the toilet.  You’ve encouraged me to become the woman I am today.  And, you’ve always been there when I need help, even when I don’t know how to ask for it.  I know there is no medal that they give out for these things.

And when I look at myself in this photo, I see my child looking back at me.  So maybe his “fierce face” is a more a matter of genetics that anything else.

Happy birthday mom!

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Happy 70th Dad

Old photos are a wonder.  I love the glimpses they show of the little moments in time that make up a life. And when you look back at them you can sometimes even see reflections of things to come.

In these photos of me and my dad, I’m struck by his reflection in the door, camera in hand, capturing these and so many other moments.  I remember him taking pictures.  I remember taking pretend pictures on his camera and fiddling with all its knobs and buttons.  I’m certain it was these early moments learning about the wonders of photography through him that planted the seeds for the photographer I’ve become.

In a way, I’ve now become Dad.  I’m the one who captures the memories so that 40 years from now my son will have something to look back on and see glimpses of his childhood.

So thanks Dad, thanks for sharing this little bit of you.

And, Happy Birthday!

Happy Holidays
Gratitude

Happy Holidays

This year my son is 3 and this year I finally get the magic of Christmas.  I remember Christmas as a child but I don’t remember back far enough to the time when I truly believed in the magic.

But now with a child who is old enough to get the whole thing, I’m looking at the holiday with a whole new set of glasses.  I’m haven’t stressed out about gifts or felt compelled to bake hundreds of cookies.  I’ve just been enjoying looking at Christmas through the eyes of my child.

And his eyes are full of wonder and excitement.  He doesn’t know anything about the madness of shopping, cards, cooking, and all the other crap.  It’s just all about the idea that this jolly old man in a sleigh (or spaceship) with magical reindeer will be here in a few days bearing gifts.  And he TOTALLY believes this.

He’s ridden on Thomas the Tank Engine to go visit Father Christmas.  He’s created handmade ornaments and cards.  He’s drawn pictures of what he wants from Santa and then thrown them in the fireplace at school watching his wishes float up the chimney to Santa.

What a magical time to be a kid.

I hope you have a wonderful holiday season and that it’s full of magic.

Gratitude

Happy Thanksgiving

Today is Thanksgiving in America and I wanted to share one of my grandfather’s Thanksgiving prayers. He was a minister in the Methodist church and I’ve recently learned that there is a group putting together a booklet of his Thanksgiving prayers.

I’m not a religious person, despite my family background. But this prayer in particular really resonated with me. So many things to be thankful for in life, no matter what God you pray to, or if you pray at all.

So today, in my grandfather’s words, things to be thankful for.

Oh God of all life, we thank thee for our lives, and all they hold of happiness and work and play, of risk and courage and beauty.

We thank Thee for the morning and evening skies of a land where liberty still marches on and freedom can still speak its mind without vanity and without fear.

We thank Thee for all heroic souls who shame our cowardice, for all generous souls who give us pure delight, for all saintly souls who kindle our desire to be really good.

We thank Thee for the friendship and the faces of those who look kindly upon us even when we fail and who help to bring us back to our bravest selves again.

We thank Thee for the encouragements of success, for the disciplines of failure, for the testings of pain, for the spurs of dissatisfaction and the spirit which arises from defeat to fight better.

We thank Thee for prized books, enchanting music and pictures which move the heart, for letters from those we love and for the song remembered for the singer’s sake.

We thank Thee for the freedom which growing older gives us from the troubles of being very young, so that we have more big things to care about and fewer little things to cry about.

We thank Thee for common joys of all kinds – the waking to sunlight through the window, the good smell of the earth on rainy days, the gift of sleep after tiring work or pleasure, and the affection of dogs and all faithful creatures.

We thank Thee for the relief of pain, for healing of the sick, for strength of the weak and comfort for the sorrowing.

Oh God of all life, we thank Thee for this lovely, troublous, undaunted human life or ours; and may we live for the good of our church, our country, and our world and ever to thy glory.

We are unworthy of all these rich inheritances.  We confess that we have profaned the temple of this life by our selfishness and heedlessness.  Have mercy upon us that we may express our gratitude for thy many mercies by contrition for our sins and that we may prove our repentance by lives dedicated more fully to thee and to the common good.   AMEN

– George Lightner

Happy Thanksgiving everyone.