Sunset Over Stonehenge
Expat Life

Five Things I Enjoy About England

Some time ago, I wrote a post on the things I missed about America since moving to the UK.  Mostly, these were things I missed that made daily life a little more convenient.  Getting through the day with the least amount of hassle is something I’m pretty keen on these days as doing anything with a toddler around is a little more challenging.

I said then that I’d eventually need to write about the things I like about the UK, just to be fair and balanced.  I’ve been in the UK now for over three years and I’ve mostly, but not completely, gotten over the culture shock.  All this time has certainly given me a chance to soak it all in I’ve been asked by a few friends what I like about living over here.

There’s no particular theme here other than I think these are all things that the English take for granted, that they don’t think twice about.  But they are things that I can’t help but compare and contrast to my daily life in America.

  1. Organic / Natural / Local Food Choices

    Even before I moved to England, I was making an effort to eat more organic and natural foods.  Michael Pollan’s wonderful book, The Omnivore’s Dilemma, opened my eyes to what we eat and where it comes from and inspired me to put more thought into my choices.  I think anyone who eats food should read this book.  And, it’s not nearly as difficult to eat this way in England as it was in America.  I can go to any of the large national supermarket chains and find a wide selection of organic and natural foods.  I don’t have to go to a specialist natural food store.  Heck, I can even find store branded frozen fish fingers that contain only ingredients I can pronounce.  In America I couldn’t find a single brand that wasn’t laden with chemical preservatives.  I love how they label produce here with details about where it came from, sometimes down to the farmer’s name.  So I can choose oranges from Spain instead of Florida and feel like I’m doing my bit for the environment.  And within a 15 minute radius of my house there are any number of farmer’s markets and places to get REALLY local produce and meat.

  2. The Countryside

    Outside of the large metropolitan areas like London, you don’t find the suburban sprawl so typical of America. England’s towns and villages are separated by large areas of countryside.  And the closeness of the country to the city always strikes me.  If I drive two miles in one direction I’m in the middle of Oxford City.  If I drive two miles in the opposite direction, I’m in the middle of the country.  In the spring and summer, the countryside comes alive as rapeseed and poppy fields turn it into a quilt of bright colors.  It amuses me that I’ve sometimes had to negotiate sheep and horses on the roads.  I’ve gone for a walk, picked wild blackberries, AND THEN MADE FOOD from them!  And for a country that has notoriously bad weather, the English sure do their best to make the most of all the great walks the countryside has to offer.  They’ll go out for walks in weather I’d normally never dream of stepping foot outside in.  But here if you waited for only the good weather to get outside, well, then you sure wouldn’t get much fresh air for a large chunk of the year.

  3. Driving

    After I got over the fear of driving on the “wrong” side of the road and the blood streamed back into my cold white knuckles, driving here has become second nature.  And, one of the things that initially scared the life out me but that now makes complete sense to me is roundabouts.  You’re at an intersection and instead of sitting at a red light you just kind of pause and then keep going.  They keep the traffic moving, most of the time.  I think about all those times I’ve been stuck at a stop light with no one else in sight.  I’m wishing I could have whizzed around a roundabout.  I also appreciate the relative orderliness on the motorways.  People understand and generally abide by the rule that says “thou shalt not be in the outside lane unless overtaking.”  In America it’s generally anarchy (and dangerous) as people mostly ignore this and drive in whatever lane they feel like.

  4. Proximity of Great Stuff

    The beauty of living in a small country is that all its treasures and great sights are within easy reach.  Within a 1-2 hour drive of my house I can visit not just some of the most iconic and historic places in England but also the world.  This year I’ve now got a National Trust membership to take in more of these sights.  It’s not that there aren’t amazing things to see and do in America, there certainly are.  But America is so big and vast.  Seeing the great sights involves planning.  I’m not a good planner.  But here I can wake up one morning and spontaneously say “let’s go visit Stonehenge.” (Disclosure: Toddler makes this spontaneity much more difficult.)

  5. Kettles

    How good are electric kettles?  They are amazing.  Why do most American’s not have these?  After the war, did the English make a secret pact to keep all the best stuff for themselves?  Or is it just me that never knew about them?  Even though I’m not a big tea drinker, I can fully appreciate the speed with which these things boil water. No more waiting for ages to boil a pot of water to make pasta. Just fill up the kettle and then BAM, it’s like magic. Now I realize that this is a silly little thing to consider as one of my top things about England. But sometimes it’s just the silly little things that can make a difference.

There are other more thoughtful things that I enjoy, like living in a country where political debate isn’t heavily influenced by religious dogma.  But you’re not supposed to talk about religion and politics, right?  The Brits at least have a sense of humor about that kind of stuff and don’t seem to take it all so personally.  And reality TV? How good are they at that?  I think just about every top reality TV show you’ve seen in America is a knock-off of something from the UK.

I’m sure I could come up with even more examples of things I like about living in the UK.  Generally though, I’m just so thankful that I’ve had the opportunity to immerse myself in another culture.  I think that every American should seek out opportunities to do this, to explore the world, to broaden their understanding of other cultures.  There are more Americans on Facebook than have a passport and I find that sad.  Go out and get your passports people and go somewhere.  Anywhere!

 

Roald Dahl Collection
Good Reads

Roald Dahl the Monkey and Me

For his first birthday, the Little Monkey’s daddy gave him a story collection by his favorite author, Roahl Dahl.  These were stories that had inspired his imagination as a child.  At the age of one though, no way could those books hold that child’s attention.  And, honestly, I didn’t think they would now either.

But about a month ago, he’d keep looking at them on the book shelf in his room and point saying “read, read.”  Certainly, their brightly colored covers attracted his attention.  For about a week I kept putting him off saying “No.”  “They’re too long.”  “You won’t like those because they have too many words.”  “Let’s read something else.”  But darn if he didn’t keep pestering me to get them down and read them.  So one night I did.  Thinking to myself, “Right, this will show him.  I’ll read two pages and he’ll get bored and want something else.”

But you know what?  He didn’t get bored and I couldn’t have been more wrong.  We have read these at bedtime now for the past few weeks and have already finished The Twits, The Enormous Crocodile, The Giraffe the Pelly and Me, The Magic Finger, Esio Trot, and Fantastic Mr. Fox, With all the short ones done, we’ve just started James and the Giant Peach.

Now, I admit that I’ve never read any of these before and so it’s been my first time reading them as well.  The Roald Dahl story I’m most familiar with is Charlie and the Chocolate Factory but only because of the Gene Wilder version of the movie.  Sometimes as I read them I wonder about the wisdom of reading a two-year old a story about a crocodile that eats children.  But in the end, these stories are full of imagination, humor, and interesting characters.  And the crocodile gets his in the end.

Yes, there are some more difficult themes in these books than say, Beatrix Potter, but I think it’s my job as a parent to help my child distinguish between reality and make-believe.  It’s no different from when he watches television.  Like, just because Peppa Pig doesn’t wear a seatbelt doesn’t mean he doesn’t have to.

There are nuggets from some of these books that have really resonated with me.  Things that a person of any age could benefit from.  Take this from The Twits.  When explaining why Mrs. Twit was so ugly, Dahl writes:

If a person has ugly thoughts, it begins to show on the face.  And when that person has ugly thoughts every day, every week, every year, the face gets uglier and uglier until it gets so ugly you can hardly bear to look at it.  A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly.  You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.

Yes, indeed.  What a good message about being optimistic and happy.  Maybe if we were all shiny happy people, we wouldn’t need plastic surgeons and botox.

And the touching ending from the The Giraffe the Pelly and Me:

We have tears in our eyes
As we wave our goodbyes,
We so loved being with you, we three.
So do please now and then
Come and see us again,
The Giraffe and the Pelly and me.

All you do it to look
At a page in this book
Because that’s where we always will be.
No book ever ends
When it’s full of your friends
The Giraffe and the Pelly and Me.

The power of books to stimulate a child’s imagination, to give them characters, friends, that they can come back to again and again, is a wonder.  Harry Potter did that for me as an adult.

Lucky for us, if the Little Monkey continues to enjoy and want more of Roald Dahl we can go to both the Roald Dahl Children’s Gallery and the Roald Dahl Museum and Story Centre, both of which are just down the road.  Nothing like taking advantage of an opportunity to bring a great stories to life.

The Cloud
iPhoneography, Photo Tips & Tricks

Why iCloud is My New Best Friend

I take a lot of photos on my iPhone.  Just last week, I had to clean them all out because I had in fact run out of storage space on my iPhone.  (Hint, hint to anyone that wants to get me a new 64GB 4S).

But the thing about taking so many photos on the iPhone that never really worked well for me was backing them up. This required plugging the iPhone into my laptop with the USB cable, synching it with iTunes, and importing photos into iPhoto.  Well, frankly, I didn’t do this very much.  I don’t know why.  I just never really thought about it much and it was a pain.

In my previous post about the importance of backing up your home computer, I didn’t mention mobile devices.  But, really, it’s just as important to back these up, especially if you’re a prolific mobile photo taker.  And I’ll tell you why.

Last summer while on holiday in America, I lost my iPhone.  Gone.  Vanished.  One minute I had it, the next I didn’t. Apple has this great app called Find My iPhone, which allows you to locate a missing device. But here’s the thing. Find My iPhone is super for locating your phone (or iPad even) under normal circumstances.  But if you’re travelling abroad and have turned off data roaming (which one should to avoid a massive bill when you get home), well, Find My iPhone will not find your iPhone.

The net of all this is that because I didn’t backup my iPhone every day, I lost stuff, photos in particular.  Now lucky for me, I had synched my iPhone with iTunes and iPhoto before I left for my trip.  Also lucky for me, I had been regularly sharing photos on Instagram.  So, I didn’t lose all the photos on my phone, just a week or two worth.

Enter iCloud, my new best friend.  If you setup iCloud and then turn on Photo Stream, your most recent photos AUTOMATICALLY get synced and copied to all your devices.  This means that I can take a photo on my iPhone and then as soon as I’m connected to Wi-Fi, it uploads to iCloud and then automatically appears on my other devices, the iPad2 and MacBook.  On my home network, I have literally just taken a photo on my iPhone and it’s appeared on my Mac in less than 30 seconds.  No more wires.  No more worries.

iCloud syncs other stuff as well.  Documents, iTunes, Calendar, Contacts, Apps AND it automatically backups my iPhone (and iPad) settings to iCloud.  This stuff is just brilliant.  Yes, I’ve had the Apple Kool-Aid and it tastes good.

So if you have an iPhone and you takes loads of photos with it, setup iCloud and turn on Photo Stream.  One day when you drop your phone in the toilet (yep, I’ve done that too) you’ll be glad you did.

I Like Snow
Everyday Adventures

Snowy Day

Saturday night brought our first snow of winter. The snowfall began early in the evening but most of its powdery goodness didn’t materialize until well after the Little Monkey had gone to bed. So I was actually giddy with excitement about showing him the snow in the morning and then taking him out to play in it.  He’s been in snow before but I thought this would be the first time he’d really get it.

Much to my dismay, he woke up so early this morning it was still dark when we got up and went downstairs.  This gave me plenty of time to fill my head with coffee before gearing up to go out in the cold.  And, it gave him time to just look out the window in amazement.

Once we got all bundled up, a process slightly less painful than that of Randy in “A Christmas Story“, we ventured out.  The snow was, well, a disappointment.  Not the nice fluffy stuff but the really wet slushy stuff and really not a ton of it, just an inch or two.  But, it was still enough for us to dig around in with a shovel making nothing in particular.

Because the snow was so slushy, we did manage to play around making lots of footprints and handprints.

And there’s nothing like cold wet fingers to make you want to come inside.  So we came back in leaving our snow-covered wellies by the door and then I made us some hot chocolate to warm up.

Happy Year of the Dragon
Inspiration

Links for the Weekend

I‘m currently reading the Steve Jobs biography.  Fascinating.  Bill Gates recently had some pretty interesting comments on their tumultuous relationship.

For someone who has photograph the Aurora Borealis on their life list, I am pretty behind the 8 ball, letting one of the best opportunities in recent years pass me by.  But, here are some amazing photographs that others managed to catch.

Think the US Food and Drug Administration has your best interests at heart?  Think again.  Read about its close ties to Monsanto and find out what you can do.

Want to hear something amazing?  Check out this turntable that makes music from the rings in wood.  It will blow your mind.

I am obviously a geek because I found this monologue by Comic Sans hysterical. (Fair warning, it does include some profanity).

We don’t have this many toy cars in the house (YET!) but what a gorgeous way to put them all together.  This would blow the Little Monkey’s mind.

The Bloggess is one of my favorite people on the Internet.  Read the latest on her inspiring Travelling Red Dress.  I might just have to get one.

These escalator photos almost make me nostalgic for all the time I spent on the Tube.  Or not.

Downton Abbey is my new television obsession and I’m eagerly awaiting Season 3.  In the meantime, here are a few interesting tidbits about Highclere Castle where it’s filmed.  I’ll be visiting as soon as it opens up again in the Spring.

A cathedral made of 55,000 LED lights.  Wow.  Amazing.

Have a lovely weekend and hope the Year of the Dragon is starting off with a bang.  x