A Few Good Reads
Good Reads

A Few Good Reads

Tiny Beautiful Things – Cheryl Strayed //  I am a huge fan of Cheryl Strayed.  Her book Wild was the only book I managed to read when I was in the hospital.  This book is a compilation of her Dear Sugar advice columns and I enjoyed the brutal honestly and empathy in her replies. Sometimes the book read like a memoir as Strayed incorporates her own experiences in her responses to various troubled souls.  So many good stories and life lessons in this book.  Plus, she uses the phrase “magic sparkle glue.”

The Universe Versus Alex Woods – Gavin Extence //  I picked this one up at the airport on the way to Portugal, wanting to feel the pages of a book in my hand for a change.  And for a completely random choice, I really enjoyed this book.  Its unusual beginning had me hooked and its heartwarming story will remind you about the important things in life.

My Life in France – Julia Child //  Child says, “The pleasures of the table, and of life, are infinite.”  And, reading her story, you see how right she is. What struck me about her story was how in the face of sometimes difficult circumstances, she always found the positive in a situation and dug deep within herself to find the determination and resourcefulness to change things for the better.  If you’ve seen the movie “Julie & Julia” you’ll be familiar with the story, but it’s worth reading Child’s own account.  You’ll be inspired to get cooking!

Bird by Bird – Anne Lamott //  This is a great little book about the practice of writing, about techniques and strategies to get words on the page.  But it’s also so so funny.  Lamott is full of witty anecdotes that make this more than just a “how to” book on writing, it’s also a commentary on life.  On perfectionism she says “What people somehow (inadvertently I’m sure) forgot to mention when we were children was that we need to make messes in order to find out who we are and why we are here.”  Plus, it includes the best story ever about plant care.

Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead – Sheryl Sandberg //  This book has received a lot of press, both positive and negative.  For me though, this book hit me straight in the gut, maybe because I’ve been a working mom in a tech company culture similar to Sandberg.  I get that Sandberg has resources that most of us don’t, she even says she gets that.  And I get that what works for one family doesn’t work for another, everyone’s situation is different.  But what she does have to say about the evolution of gender stereotypes at home and in the workplace and the impact they have on working women is bang on.  And, it’s had me doing some soul-searching.

Zog – Julia Donaldson & Axel Scheffler //  I’m a huge fan of all Donaldson and Scheffler’s books. The Gruffalo, Room on the Broom, Monkey Puzzle, and others have been staples in our house. And it’s a bit different to add a children’s book here, but this one really struck a chord with me.  I won’t spoil the ending, but it’s the kind of fairy tale I can really buy into.  One that I’d read my daughter (if I had one) over and over again.

What’s on your Summer reading list?

Thames Path Oxford
Everyday Adventures

Weekending

glorious summer weather in England + lots of quality time spent on the deck and enjoying the garden + coffee and a play in the sand at our local “beach” + happy kids at play, one of the best sounds ever + his pure excitement at playing in the big water fountain + watching his funny little run + collecting water from the fountain in cups and throwing it on each other + a new robot + slides, swings and roundabouts + running in the cool of a summer evening + movie night + time to dig the fans out of the closet + journalling in the cool morning sunshine + running in the shade of the riverbank + bbq chicken + an afternoon with friends at the fountain, keeping cool + kids sharing blueberries + extended bath time washes the sunscreen and the sweat away + watching great tennis + ice cream and fresh berries

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joining in the weekend that was with leonie and amanda

Oxfordshire Lifestyle Photographer
52 Weeks of Us

52 of Us: Twenty-Six

Half way.  Half way through 52 weeks of portraits of me and the little man.

And after twenty-six weeks, this project has bored me to tears.  And if I am, you surely are.

But I’ve told myself that I can’t give up.  I want to finish something that I started.  It’s the same reason I hesitated when my son said he didn’t want to do karate lessons anymore because “it was too hard.”  I don’t want him to learn that it’s OK to give up on something just because you find it difficult.  (Note: He wasn’t having fun so we don’t do karate anymore.  And at three years old, fun trumps moral lesson.)

But nothing says that you can’t take a step back and reinvent, rediscover your purpose.  So I’ve had a think about what I’m really trying to accomplish.

52 of Him?  I want to capture all the everyday moments that makeup my son’s life, and not just the images but the stories.  Yes, I want to use this as a way of improving as a photographer but longer term, it’s the memories I want to capture.

52 of Me?  As someone behind the lens, I felt it important for me to start documenting my life and telling my own stories.  And taking self-portraits has opened up a whole new world of creative possibilities.

The thing is though that I’m taking these pictures whether I post them online as part of a 52 week project or not.  And lately the obligation I’ve felt to post something here each week about each of us has made me hate this.  It’s had me posting things just for the sake of ticking a box and not actually as a result of an intentional creative process.  And, I’ve been so focused on the images that I’m losing the stories, not finding the time to actually put words together in sentences.

So there won’t be 52 of Him or 52 of Me any more.  Will there still be photos of us?  Yes, of course. But I want to make more of an effort to include those photos as part of a story instead of as just another number in a series.  And, I’m still taking part in Now You Workshops 52 of You so you can follow along with my self-portrait journey on Flickr.

But wait, you said you weren’t giving up.  I’m not, I’m reinventing.  Looking through my photos and thinking about what I’d like to spend the next twenty-six weeks sharing here, I’ve realised that there is one type of photo in short supply.  One that, without thought and intention, I do not regularly take.

Photos of US, me and him together.

So for the next twenty-six weeks, that will be what this series is about, getting the two of us in a frame together.  And as I’ve done a few of these, I’ve found that this is a great way to get my son interested in photography.  He’s not just being stalked by me.  He’s participating in the process and even pushing the shutter button.

Welcome to 52 of Us!

I’m curious – how many of you have started photography projects and lost the drive to continue?  What keeps you motivated?

iPhone Photography Apps
iPhoneography, Photo Tips & Tricks

What’s In My iPhone Camera Bag: An Update

About a year and a half ago I wrote about the apps I use when shooting with my iPhone and looking back, I realize that it’s time for an update.  Apps have changed.  My style has changed.

And honestly as I’d been shooting a lot with the D800 since Christmas, I’d not been a prolific iPhone shooter lately.  But on my recent holiday to Spain and Portugal, I found myself falling in love with the iPhone again.  So I thought it worth an update on what I’m using these days.

It’s a lot less.

Shooting

I use a “camera replacement” app to shoot all my images.  The built-in camera on the iPhone just doesn’t have enough bells and whistles for my needs.  Most importantly, I’ve found that having more granular control over focus and exposure and being able to separate the two make for better iPhone photos.  The built-in camera doesn’t yet offer this.

However, there are a number of apps that have this functionality.  My favorites are ProCamera and Camera+.  Both have separate focus and exposure controls and self-timers, tools I use regularly.  Right now, I’m shooting mostly with ProCamera because it also offers a square shooting mode.

I still use Hipstamatic on occasion but it’s become more of a special purpose camera and not every day shooting.

Barcelona

General Editing

There are hundreds of apps out there that enable you to get super creative with your iPhone images, some even turning them into works of art no longer recognisable as photos.  And while I have a number of these apps, I tend not to use them on a regular basis.  I tinker with them but in the end I ask myself,  “In twenty years when I look at this photo will I think I was on drugs?”  If the answer is yes, I abandon the creation.

Instead, I rely on just a handful of apps to process my images, ones that allow me to enhance the photos with clean, classic editing.

PicTapGo – I love this app.  It’s got a super easy workflow and robust set of filters that you can layer on your image.  It’s made by Totally Rad, the same folks that make the really good Photoshop actions and Lightroom presets.  And the great thing about this app is that you can save “recipes” for specific filter combinations to not only speed your workflow but also create consistency.

VSCO Cam – VSCO, the makers of the fantastic Lightroom presets, just released a new version of this app (it’s actually a whole new app) a few weeks ago.  In fact, I edited all of my holiday photos from Spain & Portugal using the earlier version of this app.  Their filters are meant to emulate various types of film and are generally clean, classic looks.  I really like some of the new filters they’ve created specifically for portraits.  The only reason I don’t use this app more than PicTapGo is that the workflow is clunkier and more time-consuming.

Photogene – I don’t do I ton of editing with Photogene but I still find it useful for “Photoshop-like” adjustments. Things like rotating, straightening, cloning, dodging or burning specific areas of a photo, etc.

Special Purpose Editing

Touch/Retouch – This is hands down the best and easiest app I’ve used for removing unwanted stuff from a photo.  That scaffolding around La Sagrada Familia that makes your photo rubbish?  Just erase it with a few swipes of your finger.

La Sagrada Familia Barcelona

FaceTune – This is the only new app on my list and one that I’m still experimenting with.  It’s purpose-built for editing portraits with tools for editing skin tone, blurring backgrounds, and highlighting the eyes.  So far I’ve really liked the results.

PicFrame – Still my favorite app for combining multiple photos into a collage.

Over – Want to make a statement or share an inspiring message with your photo?  Over is a great little app for adding text over your photos with lots of fonts and styles.

Made with Over

Sharing

Instagram – So yes, I’m back on Instagram.  I left Instagram at the end of last year over the hullabaloo regarding their terms of service but I’m back.  I found that I missed the community and the creative outlet.  And, I’m a much more prolific iPhone shooter with Instagram than without.  While I was still sharing iPhone shots on Flickr, it never really felt right and it felt like more work.  I felt like with Flickr I needed to curate myself more and was much less likely to share more candid shots.  But with IG I feel free to share more of these and it’s been really good to be welcomed back into the community.  You can find me @katherinelightner.

Flickr – I don’t share photos directly with the Flickr app, doing that instead through Instagram and cross posting to Flickr.  The main thing I use this app for is catching up with the groups in which I participate.  From here I can comment on other people’s photos, join in group conversations, or even organize my own photos on Flickr.

So there’s my latest list of iPhone photo apps narrowed down to those I actually use and that do more than just take up space on my iPhone.

What about you?  What are your go to photo apps?  Some of the same or different?

 

Durdle Door Dorset
Everyday Adventures

Weekending

my first holiday to the southern coast of England (after 5 years in England, it’s about time) + taking the little man on a new adventure + stunning weather that was perfect and sunny and warm + mother nature at her best + the Dorset coastline with its steep chalk cliffs and clear blue water + checking Durdle Door off my list + dipping our toes in the water and getting our trousers wet + throwing rocks in the sea + feeling the warm sunshine soak into my soul + perfect travelling companions + crazy jumping photos that gave us big belly laughs + giant ham sandwiches and crab salad on the beach + “stick gate” + strawberry milkshakes that we watched the man make from scratch (strawberries + milk + ice cream) + laughing and jumping on the trampoline + an amazing kid friendly hotel + a dog named Snoopy + yummy cooked meals that I neither cooked nor cleaned up after + test driving some new camera gear + starting a new book, a good summer read of no higher purpose than my entertainment + floating around in the cool of the pool + hitting up three different beaches in one day + super tired and exhausted little people who crashed hard + elderflower mojitos + watching him take a wee in the sea like he’d done it for years + digging holes in the sand + filling up buckets with sea water + lying on the beach and relaxing + not being distracted by the TV + having a lovely home cooked meal and feeling like part of the family + the feeling of washing off all the sand and sunscreen, ahhh + a lazy Sunday catching up on robot building time + family fun day + joining in the launch of a photography exhibit at Harcourt Arboretum + finding a secret hideaway with a carpet of purple flowers + spending the afternoon reading in the clam + finishing the book

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I’m joining Phil, Leonie, and Amanda in the weekend that was.